"Shut up, Kid"

For all those who only saw "Shut up, Kid", and "Shut up, Wesley".
wrt this

I know y'all are happy about "Shut up, Kid", but the point of Guinan's admonishment is that she and Riker are doing their best to give Wesley expert advice in which their almost mock-flirtation shows a combination of situations one might encounter, and by drawing from their own experiences and ways of how they would really flirt with someone. People are usually too egotistical to show this many ways of intelligently attracting a mate. Whereas Wesley fails to see the forest behind the trees...